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Original Pink Lady - OMG This is the best toy ever
I checked out a lot of reviews before making my purchase and found that a lot of people weren't really satisfied with the original pink lady most saying it was too big. I couldn't decide which model to choose so I bought the original pink lady with an extra insert (Vortex, which was highly recommended in the reviews) so I would have another option if the original didn't work out. I've only used one or two cheap smaller masturbation toys before which didn't work very well. My first two times using the fleshlight were akward because I normally don't use toys and the fleshlight is rather large. I was disappointed and thought that I had just thrown over 0 away. My third time was a charm. WOW!! I've been using it with KY Warming Gel which gives me a very pleasurable tight warm sensation. I usually add a little extra lube or a few drops of water once or twice. It fits me very well, holds me tight and I love the way that it feels. I am nothing special, just average size. The adjustable cap on the opposite end is used to control suction. I like mine cranked down tight so no air gets in which creates a lot of suction. I haven't tried my Vortex insert yet, I'm hooked on the original. This is definately my favorite toy.

Fleshlight Lady Male Masturbator Sex Toy Kit
Works well I tried it on a friend and he liked it so much he bought one for himself.

Not quite as convenient as Rosey Palm and her 5 sisters
First of all, let me say that if you're planning to buy one of these, go to the Fleshlight website and browse through all of the different inserts they have. They even have a special where you can buy 2 inserts and get the 3rd one for free. I got the Wonder Wave, Speed Bump, and Super Tight. I'd say to skip the original inserts (which includes the Super Tight), as they use up a ton of lube and aren't as good as the others.

As for the Fleshlight itself, I find that a lot of times, using the Fleshlight is just more trouble than it's worth. To understand what I'm talking about, picture the following scenario:

You're lying in bed one night and having trouble falling asleep. You start thinking about that cute receptionist at work, and suddenly the bishop is standing at full attention. You know what has to be done, but the question is, are you going to get up out of bed, drag out the Fleshlight, heat it up, find some lube, do your thing, and then clean up the mess afterward? Of course not... you're going to revert to your old standby, Palmela Anderson.

Sure, the Fleshlight is great when you plan ahead and/or you've got some extra time, but it's just not very handy on a 'spur of the moment' kind of thing. In terms of how it feels, it ranks somewhere between the real thing and using your hand. On the plus side, you don't have to argue with anyone over who's going to sleep in the wet spot afterward :)

quite enjoyable
If you're on the fence about picking one of these up like I was, it's as much a question of hygiene as of stimulation. It's a thoroughly enjoyable product and social concensus shouldn't even factor in the decision.
The material feels great and is extremely easy to clean and maintain. There isn't a comparable product for the price besides the Tenga line, which I have no experience with but their non-disposable product is twice the price. However if you're expecting an experience comparable to intercourse, you simply can't find it in a sex toy. That being said, it's a fun distraction with only a few problems. The price may be a little too high for something you basically have to buy blind, and the original insert simply lacks the stimulation of later company entries. If you really want to try one of these grab one of the tight or super-tight(or better yet pornstar)inserts instead.

Well worth the $
When I was young, I thought only losers would use something like this. But I am in a long-term platonic relationship and doing it the old fashioned solo way hurts my hands (arthritis).

The Fleshlight feels very good. To me, the actual physical sensation on my penis is just as pleasurable as a real vagina. What's missing is all the other stuff that goes with making love.

Another good point is that I do not have to be fully erect to use the Fleshlight. I have another device that requires me to be like a rock, which doesn't always happen these days.

It's strange - if a modern woman uses a dildo vibrator, she's cool and independent. How come people think a guy is a pervert if he uses an artificial vagina? Isn't it pretty much the same?